Hi, I'm Shae ♡

I'm a brand new mom learning I'm autistic in real time.Motherhood cracked me wide open and showed me who I actually am — autistic with ADHD flavors, unmasking for the first time at 30-something, trying to figure out how the hell to parent when I'm still figuring out myself.

I'm learning everything at once: how to parent, how to unmask, how to build systems my brain actually needs. I share what I find, research, tools, realizations, because maybe you're on this journey too!Sometimes I'm deep-diving toddler content while my infant naps. Sometimes I'm building Notion templates at 2am. Sometimes I'm just processing.This is me, unmasked and figuring it out.Want to figure it out together? ♡

Where to find me

FIND ME EVERYWHERE AS @SHAEUNMASKED

Read the blog

PRACTICAL TOOLS FOR ND MOMS

My blog is where I write about what actually helps when your brain works differently — executive dysfunction strategies, mental load systems, sensory management frameworks.Just an autistic girlie and her research ♡ You won't find inspiration here, but you will find functional solutions I've researched.Curious about the raw processing and real-time figuring out? Don't worry boo, I gotchu — that's happening on the other accounts, like Instagram and TikTok! The blog is where I share my findings of what works.

Get to know me

THERE'S MORE TO ME THAN "ND MOM CONTENT CREATOR"

I love anime, metal music, and crocheting tiny creatures. I hyperfixate on the random-est things. I’m awkward and nerdy and probably way more relatable than you think.Want to know the full me? ♡

Feral & functional

I MAKE STUFF yOU MIGHT NEED

Templates for executive dysfunction. Systems for mental load. Frameworks that actually work when your brain won't cooperate.That's Feral & Functional — practical tools for ND moms who need structure but can't do “normal" organizational systems.

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If you don't see it in a few minutes, check spam (and then add me to your contacts so we don't end up there again lol).While you wait, come hang out on Instagram - that's where I'm most active and where we can actually talk!I'm really glad you're here ♡